DEC 10, 2021
As some of you discovered from last week's blog post (see it here), taking a look inside and claiming ownership of the issues in your life produced some interesting realisations.
Last week’s email and blog post struck a chord with quite a few of you, so thanks to everyone who messaged me letting me know how it helped, or at least started a dialogue within yourself. Here it is again in case you missed it.
As some of you discovered, taking a look inside and claiming ownership of the issues in your life produced some interesting realisations. Without talking specifically about anyone in particular, I’ll try and make this next part as generic as I can, so it can help as many of you as possible.
The symptoms in your life are giving you information (in-formation…. being formed) that there is something misaligned. Just as toothache will be telling you to book a trip to the dentist.
Now, remember we asked the question: If you took 100 percent ownership of this problem, what is it telling you about you?
That was the question that started many of you on a journey of self-discovery. So now I want to introduce the second part of the equation by asking some more questions:
OK, so here’s the real issue: You don’t have a motivation - procrastination - skills - knowledge - stick-ability issue - luck problem… You have an Upper Limit Problem.
Put simply, it’s like your happiness-thermostat inside of you that kicks in (just like your central heating when it gets chilly). Only this happens when you’re about to break through to the next level of joy and achievement.
You may have heard about this in other ways, such as limiting beliefs or glass ceilings, but the fact is, you won’t achieve your desired outcome UNTIL you break through your upper limit barrier. In fact, the upper limit problem is the only problem you’ll need to solve to open up your life to limitless feelings of achievement and joy.
Well, first, we need to understand what this problem is, where it came from and how it’s trying to help you...
The problem starts (as always) when we are young and impressionable, and in most cases, it’s passed on by our wonderful, loving parents who want to keep us safe and warm and, most importantly, unhurt. So they’ll encourage us to learn and to grow, but as soon as there is a sniff of a threat to our confidence or our physical wellbeing, they’ll introduce an upper limit.
“Don’t stray beyond this point, darling… it’s not safe out there”. “Don’t play out of my sight and don’t ride your bike too fast”. All sensible suggestions of course, but this manifests and compounds and turns up in the strangest of ways on our lives further down the line, as we keep ourselves safe from the unknown and we self-sabotage to keep us safe in the comfort zone of the ‘known’.
Now if THIS sounds familiar, that’s because it is. This is how the Upper Limit Problem manifests in all of us at some stage in our lives. And yes, there is a way to break through this problem.
And to see in the new year, and a new you, I have developed a coaching program specifically for this purpose. If you want to identify your upper limit problem and then work through a series of steps to break through it once and for all, click on the link below to see precisely how we are going to do it:
In the meantime, have a great week, learn lots, love loads and pass it on!
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